Discussions

A member shared an article from Psychology Today questioning the empowering nature of pole dancing. The author felt the article was poorly researched and biased.

The author is returning to pole dancing after a break and is experiencing wrist and forearm pain during inverts and carousel spins. They asked for tips to avoid injury.

Someone asked for recommendations for songs that feel 'sexy' to pole dance to, hoping to expand their current playlist and find some new inspiration. They were looking for suggestions from other members.

Someone is selling a pair of gently used, black Pleaser Delight 608 platform heels in size 7 for $50 plus shipping. They were originally purchased new and worn for a few months before being replaced by a higher heel.

The author purchased a used pole that isn’t spinning smoothly, even after ensuring it’s level and not overtightened. They are concerned there may be an issue with the pole itself and asked for advice.

Someone asked the community what video editing software they recommend, as their current program is too slow and frustrating for simple edits. They were hoping for something easier to use for tasks like adding text and music.

Someone asked for advice because the rubber is peeling off the soles of their clear platform shoes after only four months of use. They wondered if repair was possible or if the shoes were beyond saving.

Someone started a thread asking members to share their favorite pole dance memes, or memes that relate to the experience of pole dancing. The original poster shared a meme that wasn’t specifically pole-related but felt relevant.

The author is returning to pole after a year-long break due to depression, exhaustion from work and life circumstances, and allergies. They are seeking advice on how others have managed returning to pole during difficult times.

Someone is planning a professional photo shoot in their home to achieve a New Year's goal and is seeking advice on how to prepare. They've booked a photographer they've worked with before, but who isn't familiar with pole work.

Someone is planning a move to the Rickmansworth/Watford area and is asking for recommendations for pole studios in North London. They are looking for structured lessons with a focus on progression, flexibility, and artistry, and are inquiring about typical pricing.

The author asked for help with a specific pole spin seen in a video, struggling to get the correct hip position and knee placement. They were hoping for tips or a tutorial for this move.

Someone is having trouble finding a suitable mounting point for their pole after moving. They are hoping to convince their landlord to remove a suspended ceiling to allow for a higher pole height, but are currently without a pole.

Someone asked where the best places are to sell used pole shoes. They were looking for suggestions on platforms or communities to reach potential buyers.

The author asked if anyone else experiences menstrual-like cramps specifically triggered by running, recalling similar issues since puberty. They were seeking to understand if this is a common experience or if they are unusual.

The author is feeling anxious about learning a specific pole move involving a leg hook and a spin, and also finds spinning in general intimidating. They are looking for encouragement and advice.

A member shared their frustration with feeling awkward in their movements while pole dancing, specifically with their legs and arms, after returning to the practice. They asked for any tips to improve their form and gracefulness.

The author is experiencing a frustrating block with a trick they previously could do, feeling their body physically resisting the movement. They asked for suggestions on how to overcome this mental and physical block.

The author is trying to use their PayPal balance to pay for pole lessons but is being asked to link a credit card, which they want to avoid. They are looking for ways to complete the purchase without a credit card.

The author is considering purchasing an X-Stage or Stand Alone Platinum Stage as they can't install a traditional pole due to a concerned family member and room limitations. They asked about the safety and trick limitations of these alternative poles.

Someone was having trouble accessing a favourite pole dance blog site and wondered if it had shut down. They were missing the comic content and hoping for a solution.

The author shared a message from an ex-boyfriend regarding photos she posted of herself pole dancing on Facebook. He questioned what her husband thought of the pictures, implying they were inappropriate.

Someone was looking for a link to a 30-day ab challenge chart they had previously found on the forum. They followed the link but couldn't relocate it after trying to print it.

Someone announced the creation of a new Facebook page dedicated to their pole dance performances. They were hoping people would like the page to help them connect with others and potentially get more performance opportunities.

Someone is having trouble reassembling their X-Pole after a move. They’ve followed the instructions but the pole won’t screw into the ceiling and extend properly.