Discussions

Someone is having trouble removing their X-Pole base from their static pole, finding it gets stuck during takedown. They are asking for advice on proper setup and removal.

This person is new to pole dancing, having started three months ago, and is looking for a local pole buddy in the Pickering, Ontario area. They are enjoying learning from online resources but are struggling with reversing moves and would like in-person support.

The author is preparing to study abroad for several months where there are no pole studios and is asking for advice on maintaining strength, flexibility, and skill. They are concerned about losing progress while away from the pole.

A member is selling unworn bralettes and bikini bottoms from Flexi Lexi Fitness, as the items didn't fit. They are offering a discount and domestic US shipping.

Someone is selling a gently used X-Pole 45mm chrome sport pole, including extensions, to fund a new spin pole. They are hoping for a local buyer in the California Bay Area and are asking $120.

Someone was curious if anyone has experience with hot pants from a specific brand, particularly the metallic styles, and asked about comfort. They shared a link to the brand's website.

The author is struggling to perform a bridge and asked for advice on building the necessary strength, despite having good back flexibility and overall upper body strength from pole. They wondered if the pushing motion is different from pulling on the pole.

Someone asked for advice on achieving flat middle splits and active flexibility, noting they are currently a foot away from the floor. They were hoping for tips and tricks from others in the community.

Someone is trying to purchase an X-pole within Canada to avoid import fees and unfavourable exchange rates, but is having trouble locating a seller. They asked if anyone knew of Canadian retailers.

Someone is planning a trip to the San Diego area and is looking for recommendations for pole studios near Qualcomm. They also expressed interest in connecting with local polers for a jam session.

Someone shared a highlight reel from the 2015 Northern California Pole Presentational, mentioning several performers took the stage and Veena was a judge. They also announced the date for the 2016 event and invited dancers to participate.

Someone is asking about experiences with a specific brand of dance pole, noting that another brand is well-known but wanting to explore alternatives. They are looking for feedback on quality.

The author shared feelings of shame about reacting defensively when people associate pole with stripping, and wanting to be a better advocate for the art form. They expressed regret for dismissing the work of sex workers.

Someone is looking to purchase the shoes worn by a particular pole dancer, admiring their style and connection to aura heels. They are asking the community where they can find a pair.

Someone shared a heartfelt anniversary message to a couple well-known within the community. The author expressed their appreciation for the couple and wished them continued happiness.

The author shared their desire to audition for an exotic club, motivated by a feeling of wanting to be impulsive and explore their skills. They expressed nervousness but also a strong desire to follow through with this goal.

Someone shared their first attempt at a front split as part of a splits challenge, noting they were participating alongside their 13-year-old stepdaughter who is already flexible. They were curious about how they did.

Someone asked if anyone was familiar with a 'Pony challenge' they saw on social media and wondered if others had participated. They were hoping to see pole dance versions of the challenge.

The author is deciding between an X-Pole stage (regular or lite) for both indoor and outdoor use, and asked about the difficulty of setup/transport and the safety of using PoleSilks with it. They were leaning towards the lite model.

Someone is looking for recommendations for brightly coloured sweatpants with elastic cuffs, ideally under $40. They prefer pants suitable for floorwork and freestyle, as they enjoy the feeling of being more grounded during their practice.

Someone purchased online lessons during a sale but couldn't access them on their account. They double-checked their email and contacted the website's support team, providing proof of purchase.

The author is concerned that their studio is focusing too much on general fitness classes and not enough on pole dance, despite recent investments in pole equipment. They are seeking ideas for marketing pole dance and increasing its presence within the studio.

Someone is having trouble finding a suitable place to mount their pole due to an unusual ceiling structure. They posted a picture seeking advice on how to proceed with installation.

The author, new to pole dancing, experienced intense thigh pain during their first attempt at a pole sit and asked if this level of discomfort was normal. They described the pain as excruciating and debilitating.

Someone is struggling to achieve the Titanic pose and wonders if their leg size is a factor. They are looking for tips to help them finally master the move.