Discussions

Someone is selling a used chrome, non-spinning X-pole (45mm) in the Raleigh/Durham area for $200. They are including a level and stud finder with the sale.

The author asked how long others have been pole dancing, sharing they started in February and had a break due to classes being cancelled. They were looking to connect with others about their pole journey.

Someone new to Michigan is looking to connect with dancers or clubs in the area. They have experience dancing in California and are hoping to freelance on weekends.

The author was looking to buy a specific pole – an Xpert 45mm, ideally in titanium gold – and also inquired about vaulted ceiling mounts. They were hoping to find a used pole to save money.

The author is seeking advice on pole dancing in heels, as they struggle with inverting while wearing them despite wanting to for aesthetic reasons. They are currently at a studio where heels are optional after the beginner level.

Someone is having trouble accessing the full range of lessons included with their new online membership. They can only see beginner content on multiple devices despite having purchased a 60-day Gold membership.

A member noticed black rings appearing on their ceiling from their X-pole, which hadn't happened in their previous apartment. They were looking for solutions to remove the marks without damaging the ceiling.

Someone was curious about a poster offered by a particular studio and asked how many different moves are featured on it. They were hoping for a count from anyone who had purchased it.

Someone asked for examples of how others incorporate their personal style into a basic pole walk. They were curious about things like hair play and body movement.

Someone asked about the sizing of a particular hoodie, unsure whether to order a medium or a large. They were seeking input from others who have purchased it.

Someone is asking about the best way to keep their new pole from becoming slippery due to sweaty hands. They specifically asked about alcohol wipes, 'Dry Hands', and other products.

Someone is selling a used 45mm chrome XPert pole with a 1000mm extension and vaulted ceiling mount. They are looking for reasonable offers and are located in Ohio, but are willing to consider shipping.

Someone asked the community for recommendations on flexibility and stretching DVDs. They specifically mentioned Alethea, BeSpun, and Felix Cane's options.

The author started a thread asking about other members' progress towards achieving the splits, admitting they haven't been actively stretching. They shared their own doubts about reaching the splits before Christmas.

The author is restarting their pole journey after a period of inactivity and strength loss. They are seeking advice on how to rebuild strength, stamina, and a consistent routine without getting discouraged.

The author asked about pole tricks that could injure or aggravate an inflamed rotator cuff, sharing they've had a mild ache in their shoulder for a year that recently worsened. They wondered which movements to avoid.

A member is conducting research for an English paper about the educational backgrounds of people who work as exotic dancers. They asked for information about profession, education level, and reasons for working in the industry.

The author is new to both pole dancing and the forum, expressing excitement about joining the community. They shared that the supportive atmosphere of the site was a key factor in their decision to begin pole dancing.

The author’s X-pole Xpert came down and they are struggling to reassemble it, as they didn’t install it originally and the instructions are unclear. They are hoping for help from the community before hiring a professional.

Someone new to pole is looking to buy a used, portable pole for home use, as new poles are expensive. They are located in Southern California and are on a fixed income.

The author introduced themself as a new member and beginner poler, sharing their excitement about finally pursuing this long-held dream after becoming a mother. They recently ordered a pole and are looking forward to starting their journey.

Someone is visiting Huntersville, North Carolina in December and is looking for recommendations for pole studios with advanced classes or open pole time. They asked the community for suggestions.

The author is excited about some clothing from a brand and is asking for sizing advice on a sweatshirt. They also shared ideas for new merchandise, including leg warmers and wristbands with the brand logo.

The author asked if truly loving oneself means being content without physical touch or affection. They were curious about the connection between self-love and the need for physical connection.

Someone new to pole is finding chopper and inverts difficult despite being able to do other moves like teddy and flag. They've been working on strength and flexibility but are feeling discouraged.