Someone new to pole dancing asked for recommendations on which pole to buy, considering material and diameter, hoping to make a long-lasting purchase. They were looking for advice on what others started with and what they would suggest.
What the replies say: Many people suggested a 45mm diameter pole, especially for smaller hands, as it offers better grip than 50mm. Several members mentioned that brass poles provide excellent grip, particularly in warmer climates, while chrome can be slippery. One person recommended getting a spinning pole from the start to avoid needing to upgrade later.
AI-generated, may be imprecise · updated 9/9/2026