I'm really glad you're asking for input from polers before making the product!
Personally, I really just want functionality, comfort, and modesty (while still showing enough skin to grip the pole of course) from my pole clothes. While it would be neat for my pole clothes to somewhat coordinate with each other, it's not that important to me. I agree with everyone about preferring synthetics over cotton.
Also, though I'm happy having fewer sports bras than pole shorts, it's definitely just as important to me to have good sports bras.
What I want out of sports bras:
- Cups, cups are more supportive than traditional compression sports bras
- Not too restrictive, I hate feeling suffocated by a too-tight sports bra and I don't like looking in the mirror and feeling like my breasts have disappeared
- Minimal (and ideally no) fabric covering my traps so I don't slip in shoulder mounts
- No metal or plastic pieces, I've bruised my back from doing rolls/shoulder stands wearing basic bras with a plastic clasp (also, while I understand why a lot of women would want a front zipper or clasp, I personally would dislike it as I do a few tricks that involve my sternum on the pole and I don't want to scratch the pole or myself)
I'm a fairly small-breasted woman (34B), so I haven't had too much issue putting on and taking off sports bras.
What I want out of pole shorts:
- Full coverage in the butt
- Wide (preferably diamond) gusset, no front seam
- Side tie would be really nice so I can adjust how much "side booty" is exposed for things like brass monkey
- No pucker-butt, that's an instant wedgie for me!
- No fold-over waistband, it will only ride up my waist and I end up adjusting a lot while I'm on the pole
Also, even if it says hand-wash I'm going to end up machine washing it on a delicate cycle and possibly machine drying it on low heat.